Agree with these responses.

If my husband (who has a brokers license on the side of his day job) were to broker the RE transaction my Solo 401k purchases, can he take that commission without violating any rules?

It would appear that @Michael Smythe 's response to property class would also be spot on for Buffalo. 

If anyone has any tips or advice feel free I’m open to learn more 

Especially when the investor form he filled out listed his occupation as cellular phone salesman.One day, while golfing with this investor, I inquired about how he was able to accumulate so large an amount of investment capital at such an early age.

So I think my best bet to start off with is to find a property management company.That said, I’m wondering if anyone has tips on property management companies they would recommend, and/or any tips on how to find the best property management.

I met a new investor, with contracting experience, at a local real estate meet up and he is interested in doing a flip using a hard money loan, renting the property out to his girlfriend, then using a FHA loan to buy it so he can live in it.

Obviously I plan on increasing his rent to market value and switching utilities but hesitate increasing it past 20% due to the fact that during our walkthrough he seems like a solid tenant with a very well kept unit and even bought his own washer and dryers in the unit. 

If not can you message me his contact info?

Make either movable, because he may move his camera in response.