Now in the process of selling it and using the proceeds in the future to buy one that we don't have to rent out.  

The 2 daughters are on board with selling, but concerned that the government, Medicare, etc. will 'take' the proceeds to pay for his care. 

@Steve DellaPelle your BP title states property manager, which is interesting given this situation you've allowed to develop.1) hire an attorney2) send a legal notice of termination, often called a 30 day notice, that can be used to start a court case.

Good afternoon.A late notice simply means that they are late.What do the terms of the notes say in terms of proceeding with a default, and how to declare a default?

Fail to follow one and you can find yourself paying a hefty fine, in a court of law or both.

I went to court and fought my case but of course no use.

Divorce and she is required to remove them by court order?

When their time is up at the duty station, they would sell it thereby allowing the VA loan to be reinstated, and then roll the proceeds into a new home at their next duty station.

Can I get a list of distressed properties from the court house?

And that you use all of the proceeds from the sale to accomplish that.