The unit is roughly 500 sq ft and has two adults & a child living there.

I believe Provo’s ordinance reads (Provo Code 14.06:)"“Family,” unless otherwise expressly provided in this Title means:(a) One (1) individual living alone; or(b) One (1), but not more than one (1) at the same time, of the following groups of individuals described in subsections (i), (ii), or (iii) who together occupy a one-family dwelling unit as one (1) nonprofit housekeeping unit and who share common living, sleeping, cooking and eating facilities:(i) A head of household and:(A) All persons related to the head of household as a parent, child, grandparent, grandchild, brother, sister, uncle, aunt, nephew, niece, great-grandparent or great-grandchild by blood, marriage, adoption, guardianship, or any other duly authorized custodial relationship; and(B) Not more than two (2) additional related or unrelated persons, including but not limited to, personal care or personal service providers; or(ii) In R1 zones located within neighborhood areas described in Subsection (c) of the definition of “baching singles” in this Section, two (2) related or unrelated individuals and any children of either individual, if any; or(iii) In all other zones, three (3) related or unrelated individuals and any children of either individual, if any."

Thanks Ned, Short answer to explain it, I did not know they were around back then, just found out now when we are coming back, a little background, when I started in 2005, I was a child :) 28 years old and thought I knew it all, all, all :), did not know about hard money lending, only new about bank loans, and Home equity lines of credit, did not know where to find more money, since I did not have much, I would rely on what I could get from banks, loans, credit cards and was not always that great, it was a learning experience.....and Wholesalers, I did not know that even existed, everything I would find back then was already on the market and through a "friend" agent, MLS, FMLS and all those, nothing like what we have today.

So do child advocacy attorneys.

The property was held in trust with my wife as the only child and successor trustee.

Some pretty low level individuals get involved and it being the ugly step child of the sales side of real estate, usually gets the struggling realtors who aren’t making it in sales.

Who wants to pay for a new roof the same year your child goes to college? 

Hey guys,I have a tenant I had to replace a toilet for at the beginning of the month due to their child flushing a number of toys down the toilet. 

Tell them that you are concerned about your liability as the property owner and you really would like them to do an inspection so you know if the property and the way it is being used is safe for child care children.  

This is the nightmare scenario everyone hopes to avoid if you can you'll have to tough it out until the powers at be decide you can actually try to recover the funds you are owed and once that is the case this is one I wouldn't let go unless it is a last resort, because not paying anything towards rent is a choice not a necessity, even in HCOL Bay area and with a newborn the tenant isn't spending $4k of unemployment on groceries and utilities per month.