I am married with four children and I'm employed as a registered nurse.

1099 income is self employment, meaning your claimed income will be ignored by any traditional mortgage lender (no, issuing yourself paystubs or showing bank statements will not work), and we are forced to just go off of what your tax returns say.

To help us adhere to the highest standards, we employ an exhaustive investigative process for each applicant.

Job growth - http://www.deptofnumbers.com/employment/ - Latest info as of March 2017.

That would indicate to me that investing is a low priority since your income level is not very high indicating you should be able to be mobile employment wise.

If you've got a young family, its important to note that health insurance coverage and other benefits at a major corp disappear when you're self employed.

You wholesale income will be earned income and subject to all applicable taxes including self employment.

The letter reads something to the effect that "We are writing to let you know that we have already fully approved Joe Xmas for $1,000,000 in conventional financing, provided that: the paperwork comes through, what he told us was true, employment verification is good, etc..."

There is no such thing as balance- Balance is something you get after you have arrived or achieved at your goal whether that be tons of rentals, flips or whatever your goal.During your pursuit of it there is no such thing as balance- That means if you are employed you will be spending an insane amount of time working on your real estate stuff, you will not spend as much time with family friends etc.

For example I know for a fact some employers will not allow you to get a salaried / exempt position without a college degree.The benefit as someone mentioned above by having a degree is you will most likely earn more thus allowing you to save up more $ for your real estate deals.I would recommend getting a degree in something you are interested in.