There are definitely many ways to skin the cat.

It's easier to start when things are trending up.If you're starting out and still want to jump in, I'd recommend partnering with an experienced builder (minimum of 15+ homes a year) and doing a deal together where both of you have significant skin in the game.

Being a female in a male dominate industry is challenging and sometimes people don't realize small comments they make can really irritate you like the "where is the man of the house".

I have done 2 successful flips and also have one 1 buy and hold.Now that I have a little skin in the game I’d like to ask my dad who is 62, with a 6 figure 401k to allow me to use $50,000 to invest in more real estate.

She removed the charge after I complained, but it was still irritating.

I have done 2 successful flips and also have one 1 buy and hold.Now that I have a little skin in the game I’d like to ask my dad who is 62, with a 6 figure 401k to allow me to use $50,000 to invest in more real estate.

While I’m taken back by your accusations of me being a thief or scammer, I have pretty thick skin and will certainly take note of some of your valid points.

If you do not have really thick skin, don't get started.With that said, you asked about the best software. 

I am trying to get my skin on the game i.e. start with multifamily.

Not sure what his end goal is with his repeated tactlessness, I think he could have conveyed the concerns he mentioned in a more professional way, but I have a pretty thick skin.