I’ve “heard” you could live there for a year and then go some where else however you can’t pull out another FHA loan with the exception of moving somewhere to work or having an increase in family size.Any advice on what a good way to start is with no real capital to your name (to BRRRR) and no credibility to raise money?

We are looking for now at B/C class neighborhoods where there are investors flipping and there is some room for growth.  

Is there a particular website where I can search all the listings?

If your family don’t have experience in property management then you are going to hire a PM co no matter where you invest.

If you know the market and where to price your property, a listing agent is really not going to add a lot to the process and will cost you 3%,  Now before I get blasted by agents posting how mush they add to the sale on the listing side, I will say that if you are not familiar with the sales process, maybe you need to pay the 3%. 

Some panels have specific slots where these can be installed.

There are 2 nice townhome communities there where it is legal to do nightly rentals, and it is possible to find something around the $1M range.  

Assuming  this revenue ruling still stands, it mirrors the SC situation nicely, meaning it would support your acquisition date of the real property not starting until you have taken possession.I think this would be highly dependent on the terms of the local jurisdiction as well, so what might be correct in one jurisdiction, could be completely wrong in another depending on the rights acquired related to the property.But happy to be pointed where I am wrong!

But my second answer is that if you are able to “go it alone” from a directional control perspective you will be much happier, and can operate lean where there is no counter arguments to be had with a partner.  

If you are financing the initial purchase, you will probably be subject to a seasoning period where you won't be able to refinance.