I am hoping that investing in real estate will aid me in getting rid of my debt and providing wealth for me in my future.

I seriously need a reliable boots on the ground partner or services that will aid in making acquisition, rehab, selling, property management of sorts smoother.

Considering the fact each sibling would provide an aide ranging from kitchen and bathroom renovations, HVAC installation services, interior decorating and designing, In my eyes i see somewhat of a dream team.

I see some of them sell the property after 20yrs because the government stops its aid in money also. 

Having that perspective of the worst real estate situations from a law enforcement perspective will likely aid your judgement and tolerance of investing opportunities in the near future.

I'm having trouble locating REIA clubs in my area (the one I contacted is no longer meeting, next closest is about 1.5 hrs away).  

I don't, but I'd guess Zillow is probably the closest!

The closest I came to making an offer was a small 3/2 that was 12 years old in Pflugerville.  

This is the closest opportunity in months that I have had to get another property and I do not know how to attack this situation.

You will also see where your networking has paid offer by using people you trust for various parts of the deal ex: agents, investors, title companies, inspectors, appraisers, warranty companies, and you may even line up the new buyer with your networking.Creating a plan and putting it in writing is a very powerful visual aid.