I never understood "Make Me Move", so I can't address that.

That includes what sounds like breaking the lease, if I understood your post correctly.

Most recently I was put in touch with a broker that understood our needs and referred us to his "loan processor" she is coming back to me now after 5 weeks of paperwork back and forth oh we ran title on the properties and they are under LLC, I lost my $#@%. 

I need to clarify I meant 'chicken OR the egg' - which i'm sure you understood.

All of them were willing to give me either a ballpark based on my description (they also understood I wanted to factor a good number, something to cover me verse a low number that could backfire in the end) or typical costs per SF, SQ or window.

I understood that with the free membership we get 3 uses of the calculators, well I used it once and on the second I was told I exceeded my uses!!! 

As I understood the process, the bank has a sales price below which they wont go. 

Understood.

They understood the situation the seller was in and saw it as a opportunity to get a truly custom home for a fair market value instead of competing in a multiple offer situation.

I'm not sure what that exact time frame is, but it's understood that you need to compare quotes on your loan, so the inquiries get lumped together by the credit agencies