I did get some double takes while explaining my experience for qualifications mentioning having been a bank examiner for FDIC and was accepted pretty quickly by the court.

See your attorney.All mortgages are reviewed after the are made and loans are pulled at random for examinations after a year as well.

I contacted the police and had them do a general welfare check on the gal and they looked at his phone to examine the messages and the police said they weren't of a nature they can call personally threatening.

I strongly suggest that the family  speak with a financial planner to examine a number of moving parts that I see as a concern that was not mentioned which further complicates the "family house" idea.

I'm really new but your line of logic hit a nerve.

@Randall Re II I think this is a sound perspective.I'll also add that it can be helpful to make a true apples-to-apples comparison with respect to your cost of capital.Many investors will look at just the interest rate when comparing lending options, some will look at the interest rate and points, and the most sophisticated investors will take a holistic view, or examine the total cost of capital.The total cost of capital includes not only the interest rate and points, but also the pre-closing costs and fees associated with the loan.Examining all cost variables allows you to make a true comparison between lender quotes.Nice post!

@Jonathan SchwartzLet's examine....If it's her primary residence and she's not MFJ she gets a $250k exemption on the capital gain. 

I know that buy and hold was not that nerve racking for me but starting my website/blog has been "very" stressful on the side because it is out of confort zone.

Also, find your PM contract and examine it for what happens for loses.

Take control of your nerves as you try to articulate your thoughts to the seller.