Grit your teeth and muscle through this.

It continues to be a head ache dealing with the bank but due diligence and staying relaxed knowing it's going to play out the way it should is my general rule.

Get a nice property, Get a manager, and relax.

If we don’t take time to relax and recharge, we risk developing burnout.

Large open lot with mature landscaping and a gentle slope to Lake Norman. 100' pier leading out to a covered dock with room to relax before jumping on your boat for a sunset cruise on the lake.

Thought I already explained to you what every real estate investor should do, but let us get it clear up front that my preaching is for the people who want to earn the most money they can with the money they have and I don't care to even discuss real estate with people who tell me they don't have the desire to, AT LEAST, check under every rock to, AT LEAST, find out what other avenues are out there.I don't care if someone is madly in love with short term rentals and they may be happy with the money they earn, but nobody should argue and say short term rentals or any other type of real estate investing is better than another without doing some serious research.A new investor should not invest one penny until he (or she) has checked out, studied and understands the math very clearly in regards to what type real estate investments will give them the best returns and what type investment is most-suitable and enjoyable.For myself, short term rentals have too many inherent risks, they requre 24/7 management and I like to relax on Sundays and holiday weekends and the costs for management, cleaning every time a guest moves and other costs are far too high.

I started to feel taken advantage of, like I can't be at home even on my days off, I can't relax, I can't cook in the kitchen or sit down in the living room to watch tv or craft (my days off are during the week) because they are right next door and I might be making to much noise for her work zoom meetings or something.

Our exit plan – when we were ready to kick back and relax, we would sell them.

@David Seemiller I’m pretty sure commercial lenders are more relaxed.

It’s just like anything train your “deal” muscle and soon it will be strong!