It was not until recently (read: last week) that the light bulb went off in my head as I listened to random BP podcasts on my way to/from work. 

Sounds like we are close to the light at the end of the tunnel!

However, you get the choice to hold them to the lease or let them off light, it's your prerogative. 

It's easy to let the little things distract you so you dont have to face the bigger, more real, challenges.I recently ran across a series of articles on anxiety and procrastination that helped shed some light on my situation..

A simple fix and flip; clean, landscape the yard (in Arizona that means spread some gravel), a couple new light fixtures, and touch-up paint.  

I realize this a somewhat vague question and I want it to be that way to get as much feedback and light on the topic as possible.

I realize this a somewhat vague question and I want it to be that way to get as much feedback and light on the topic as possible.

Or holding back huge amounts for punch list items, like holding back $1k for a crooked light switch plate because that means the electrical "technically" isn't complete.

PLEASE, shed some light on the subject for me

You'll have good options along the corridor of the yet-to open Aurora light rail line stations.