Are you finding more investors turning to private money lenders for quicker access to capital?

Private money lenders may fund a deal at 13% and then turn around and fund a similar deal at 12% or 14%. 

., private equity, pension funds, or REITs) can provide the capital necessary for larger developments or acquisitions.

I have 2 tickets and an upgraded room (honeymoon suite with access to private beach).

The example you provided about STRs highlights how crucial it is to consider various perspectives before making decisions.

Are there any lenders or private DSCR lenders you'd recommend ?

Leveraging creative financing methods like hard money loans, private lending, or partnering with investors can also help you secure deals when traditional financing is delayed or limited.

If your wife’s family agrees, you could look into purchasing the home from the trust, possibly before it enters probate, which could save time and legal headaches.Reducing Closing Costs: One way to reduce closing costs is to negotiate a private sale among family members, which might save on agent commissions and some taxes.

Just about everyone only talks about and highlights cash flow and if it doesn't cash flow then it's not good...

Is the only place where this works some sort of a private loan with a local private investor who understands your situation?