Going to a bachelor party, 30th birthday, etc. resulted in a "were booked".  

Should I write a letter to the bank mentioning some of the things such as, "This house would be perfect for my 7 week old son", "I can see us having his first birthday in this house"...and other things along those lines to make it more personal and give me an edge.3. 

You could always put a flower bed right in front of the house to hide the block structure (put a sago palm or two in the middle).

IMHO, a legitimate experienced lender with a real track record and actual money isn't going to be such the delicate flower that they will disappear off of BP just because ONE person gave a vague warning about them.

For instance wholesaling is NOT investing its sales and marketing and I firmly believe certain people have an innate ability that they were born with or acquired very young.. the gift of gab being one.. out going personality etc.. those folks generally are going to be far more successful at wholesaling than the person is a one that you would describe as a Wall flower .. with no people skills sales skills phone skills etc.. 2.

Before my 20th birthday I was qualified to buy a cheap condo.

I have set a goal to have 200 units by my birthday next year June 2nd 2017.  

Location @Van Flowers?

I don't see my family a lot and miss a lot of my kids birthdays .this is not my dreams and don't want to do longterm.

If speaking about it on a public forum is too revealing, feel free to message me.Disclaimer: I am only 23 and I am looking to reach this number by my 30th birthday.