I see a lot where newbies are asking for help but as newbies, it feels like they are missing a lot details.

However a more experienced person might now better all the details 

Attention to detail is important in this business.

Buying a home is the bay area retirement planYes, there are a lot details and differences for everyone's particular situation.

Can you send me the details? 

Property details: 3 bed 2 bath both sides with attached garages, aluminum siding, copper plumbing, 1972 construction, separately metered, all electric water heater, range, dryer, public water and public sewer on a slab foundation in a great school district right next to brand new construction everywhere.

HOWEVER, I recommend reading Stuart's advice above very carefully and perhaps soliciting his feedback on the deal in more detail before putting too much more time into it. 

Then I(we) control everything.I know there are details to work out, and I am still in the thinking/planning phase, while I continue to save money, but is this a conceivable plan?

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I really appreciate you taking the time and providing a detailed reply.