We moved a couple of people in by the room and had our bills, mortgage paid for and even our grocery bill.

If the goal is to refinance within the next couple of years it could make sense. 

I struggle with that myself.Insurance broker - I can introduce you to a couple of great agents, but they are not on Bigger Pockets, so I cannot tag them.

Living in a reno while the kitchen is unusable while doing the flip yourself will test a any marriage, especially newly married people.

Even if you have to travel a couple of hours, you have a much better chance of finding someone.How to approach a mentorOnce you've found a likely candidate, it's time to reach out and ask.

I had to add a couple more counties to my lists, and still very slim. 

Quote from @Hector Espinosaor Espinosa: Quote from @Jared Smith: I would tell myself to figure out how to buy it if it is close to making sense and don't squabble over an extra couple thousand dollars that you are only paying 20-30% of at close anyways.

Obviously the net number is what's most important to sellers typically but I have found escaltion clauses and offering free rent backs to the seller are just a couple of ways to make your offer stand out. 

Me and my girlfriend recently moved into a home we are renting along with another couple in the separate basement unit.

I network with others here on BP and in a couple facebook groups.