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- Real Estate Coach
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What No One’s Talking About in Multifamily Right Now…
Hey BP Community,
I’ve been in the multifamily space for a long time — 120+ deals, $1B+ in transactions — and I can honestly say this is one of the most challenging seasons I’ve ever seen.
In 2024, I exited 20 deals — and not all of them by choice.
It was painful. Financially, emotionally, relationally.
But here’s the crazy part…
No one’s really talking about what they learned.
Some folks have gone silent.
Others are still acting like it’s 2021.
Meanwhile, behind the scenes:
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Deals are bleeding cash
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Lenders are backing away
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Insurance costs are exploding
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Operators are quietly scrambling
Here’s what we’ve had to navigate — and none of this is theory:
- Loan maturity issues
- Capital calls (fun times…)
- Deed-in-lieu negotiations
- Rescue capital and complex structures
- Exit plans under massive pressure
- Forced sales
We’ve taken our share of hits. But we’ve also learned. A lot.
Not all lessons come from wins — in fact, most don’t.
So I'm curious: How are YOU approaching distress right now?
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Are you proactively repositioning deals?
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Having hard convos with lenders early?
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Raising capital from both current and new investors?
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Looking at deals others are too scared to touch?
I’m happy to share what’s worked (and what hasn’t) — especially if it helps someone else avoid costly and stressful mistakes. This is a time for real strategy, not just theory.
Let’s talk.
- Mark Kenney
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- Investor
- Santa Rosa, CA
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@Mark Kenney I’m sure we would both agree that we learn 100x more when things are going wrong than we’d ever learn when things are going right. I got my PhD from the school of hard knocks in the 2008 GFC, and it changed literally everything about how I’ve approached real estate investing ever since. Fortunately it was those lessons that led me to sell 3/4 of my multifamily portfolio in 2021/early 2022. Unfortunately, the buyers of those assets are in the same mud as you’ve described here.
Survivors of times like this will be great partners for passive investors on the other side of it all, so long as they learned the lessons and made adjustments. What will separate survivors from has-been’s will come down to how they communicated with investors during the tough times, and how their decisions mitigated damage.
I think we’ve only seen the tip of the iceberg in multifamily distress. I think one of the best lessons for sponsors going through this is the paragraph above. If you ghost your investors and do nothing to mitigate the damage, and make no adjustments to your approach to investing, you’re done.